FAQs

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What should I wear?

Answer

We want you to wear the outfit you've always wanted to wear. The one that's been in the back of your closet for years. The most outrageous dress. The zootiest suit. Bring your problem patterns or your monochrome, your taffeta and organza, your houndstooth and neoprene. John Waters GQ centerfold. Goth funeral. Bargain bin royalty. Your aughts throwback, 1980s hair, 1880s corsets. Outshine the bride. Most importantly, bring shoes you can dance in.

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Is this wedding in a public park? How's that gonna work?

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Yep! The wedding ceremony will take place in our beloved Prospect Park. We have a permit. We, and our guests, will be standing (don't worry, it won't be too long). We will provide some chairs for those who need, but we are asking most people to stand outside in the grass (and we can't wait to be surrounded by our loved ones) so keep this in mind when considering footwear. There are public bathrooms accessible nearby.

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Should I consult AI to write a note, blessing, speech, or toast?

Answer

No! Tech billionaires are stealing our collective knowledge and creativity and selling it back to us. This is an AI free wedding.

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Is this a secular wedding?

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It is! Thanks for asking. For us, this is a commitment to each other, our friends and family, and the world of which we are a part. We are excited to incorporate rituals from our Jewish and Appalachian backgrounds, our personal practices, and our political traditions. As such, in your notes and wishes to us, we ask guests to please refrain from including theistic language.