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September 11, 2026
South Haven, MI

Elly & Ethan

FAQs

The Wedding Website of Elly Postma and Ethan Bolt
Guests- inspiration for our formal attire wedding above. Ladies: Floor-length dresses or elegant midi dresses in rich, seasonal tones. Dresses can have- but should limit- cut outs, slits, and plunging necklines. Gentlemen: Dark, seasonal toned suits with ties/bow-ties or tuxedos. Please consider footwear suitable for grass.
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Is there a dress code?

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our dress code will be formal attire, see the top of this page for more information and images

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What are the wedding party colors?

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Espresso brown- bridesmaids Black suit with black bowtie, white suit shirt- groomsmen

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Are you registered? Where?

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We have decided against a registry. Having you celebrate with us is the true gift. Should you wish to bless us further, a monetary gift to support our future together would be sincerely and gratefully received.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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shoot to arrive 15 to 30 minutes prior to scheduled time, 4pm.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited accommodations, we respectfully note that only those listed on the invitation are to attend

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Are kids welcome?

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Due to limited accommodations, we respectfully note that only children who are listed on the invitation are invited

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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yes, see our "travel" page for ours as well as the venue owner's recommendations

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is parking for both ceremony and reception in the same lot! Attached is the URL explaining this from the venue's website. As you will see from the attachment, there is a specified driveway for parking, please do not go in the separate drive of the "farmhouse," as this is the owner's home. We want to respect their space. Please review if applicable. URL: https://www.theblacksheepshelter.com/venue-parking

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Any venue specific questions that are not addressed here?

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Attached is Black Sheep Shelter’s FAQ’s page, feel free to explore their page for other needs if applicable URL: https://www.theblacksheepshelter.com/faqs-and-other-details