We love your bundles of joy, but this is an adults-only event. Please plan accordingly!
If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes, if it does not then we would prefer to see just you!
Semi-formal! Come in dress attire that is comfortable for you. Just keep in mind that the ceremony is outside. Also, the bride will be wearing a black dress, so we ask that guests do not wear all black. (For instance, anyone wearing a suit should leave off the suit jacket if it is black.)