FAQs

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Is there an in person option?

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No, we are so sorry to not have you join us in person. We would love to but are keeping this to family. We would love to have you join us on zoom and/or leave us a message on the guestbook!

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Is there a dress code?

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For family that is attending in person, wear clothing that is appropriate for fall/winter (aka no neon colors please). For those of you on zoom, shirt is preferred and pants are optional. But in all seriousness, if you want to dress up and celebrate with us then, please, by all means (and turn on your camera so we can all appreciate the outfit). If you want to be in your PJs and listen, feel free to do so! That's the joy of having this virtually. Camera on is optional!

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Is this a wedding or is this an elopement?

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Yes! This is all of the above. We are celebrating our union and doing so with a small gathering of our family but we know that many of you want to witness this as well, so we are doing a little mix. ... Also, we are still a little confused about what counts as a "wedding" or "elopement" these days. Some say any small gathering at a courthouse is an elopement, others require the scandal of having only your two closest confidants and an Elvis impersonator present. Either way, we will be getting married in the eyes of the Law.

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Will you be exchanging vows?

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Yes! This is one of the reasons we want you to be present on zoom. But if they don't let us we will (a) fight them and (b) if that doesn't work, we will go outside and exchange the vows we wrote.

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Do you have a registry?

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Yes we are accepting contributions in the registry tab above. We are extremely grateful and appreciative of any contribution you can make large or small. This is not required or expected but an option for those who feel strongly about contributing.