One day, while scrolling on Facebook, Jamiee noticed her cousin had shared Erista's page and poetry. Intrigued by the words, Jamiee reached out, sparking a conversation that would shape the course of their lives. Recognizing a shared desire for meaningful connection, Jamiee and Erista agreed to keep things casual, both stating they weren't actively seeking a relationship but welcomed companionship and conversation. What started as a casual exchange soon transformed into a daily ritual of conversation. Despite their initial intentions, the connection between Jamiee and Erista grew stronger. As the connection deepened, Jamiee and Erista felt compelled to meet in person. Intimidated by Jamiee's height (5'11"), Erista ALMOST didn't follow through. Overcoming hesitations, Jamiee and Erista finally met in person and went on their first date to In-N-Out. After a year and a half of going on dates and getting to know each other, Erista took a leap of faith and asked Jamiee out on 6.2.2018. Together, they continued to create memories, embracing shared passions, navigating challenges, and deepening their bond. Eventually living under the same roof, Jamiee and Erista continued to uncover shared interests - food and video games! As they explored their shared space, Jamiee and Erista discovered their synergy while playing cooperative games mirrored their connection in real life, and soon, they became each other's "forever player two."
Erista orchestrated a week-long journey through Merced, Vegas, and Arizona to celebrate Jamiee's 30th birthday. Little did Jamiee know, Erista had been telling friends and family of her real intentions for the trip; culminating in a proposal that would forever define the next chapter of their lives together. On the final leg of their journey, Erista surprised Jamiee with a detour to Phoenix, Arizona with a promise of their favorite food - Bao Bun Tacos. As the wheels turned and the road stretched ahead, Erista asked Jamiee deep and meaningful questions about their relationship. Suspicious of the questions, Jamiee continued answering questions since, of course, deep conversations are exciting to a therapist (marry a therapist at your own risk haha). Upon arriving at the restaurant, Erista guided Jamiee to a quiet bench and asked Jamiee to take a seat and close her eyes. Erista shared a carefully crafted poem that echoed the journey of their love. Each word painted a picture of shared laughter, quiet moments, and the promise of a future together. As Erista concluded the poem, the air buzzed with the question that lingered, "Will you marry me?" In shock, Jamiee was still processing what was happening and almost forgot to answer the most important question. Jamiee said "YES!" Bubbling with excitement for the next chapter, Jamiee and Erista shared their first meal together as an engaged couple - Bao Tacos and Ramen.