FAQs

Question

For our US friends: I heard that Hindu wedding ceremonies are REALLY long? What's the deal?

Answer

Yep, you heard right! Our Pandit (priest) has said the wedding will be as long at 6 and 1/2 hours! Here's the good news....you aren't expected to sit in one spot the whole time. In fact, Hindu weddings are pretty informal. It's totally acceptable to chat amongst friends, have a cup of chai, leave for a short while, and EAT the delicious buffet spread! There are a number interactive points in the wedding that request that guests help bless the couple and help cheer on couple during the more fun and competitive parts of the ceremony. Our Pandit speaks english and will be providing context to each part of the ceremony so that you can keep track. The most important part of the wedding starts just prior to 8 pm when Kash and Erin's OFFICIAL marriage time, the muhurtham, is at 8:10 PM. The really good stuff starts then! You can see the meanings of each ceremony here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13A8IRDnE2g6Cm9hqStMD8m90KuU539vbAY-1jJTzVhE/edit?usp=sharing

Question

For our US friends: Where can I learn about Hyderabad?

Answer

Check out, the "To Do" tab on this website and check out these videos! Top Places to Visit in Hyderabad https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjI55CMjRgA Who loves drone footage!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UPRKkSU5_40&t=145s Discover Hyderabad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6R-WGOqjC0

Question

For our US friends: Is wearing South Indian clothes cultural appropriation?

Answer

Because of increasing awareness of cultural appropriation, this has been asked many times. You are invited to a Hindu ceremony. If you choose to wear Indian clothes, it's out of love and respect. In fact, by wearing Indian clothing, you are more likely to be dressed appropriately and make those around you more comfortable. Indian nationals love when a foreigner embraces their culture by wearing traditional clothes, dancing with zeal, and/or eating Indian food. When attending an Indian wedding, western guests are very much encouraged to wear a traditional Indian clothes. It has been my personal experience that I feel more appropriate and fit in better when I wear Indian dress at formal functions. Ultimately, wear outfits that you feel comfortable and confident in!

Question

For our US friends: Ok. Now that is answered, what should I wear?

Answer

Here are some things to consider if you do choose to wear Indian dress. 1) There is a distinct difference between a north and south Indian wedding. This is a South Indian wedding. Don't know what is expected at the different events? See the link below for suggestions. If you arrive early to India, you can always go shopping there to avoid confusion of what is typical South Indian dress! 2) Avoid red and black. Red is traditionally reserved for the bride. Black is okay if you are wearing a suit. The key is to wear bright fun colors whether Indian or American dress! Both men and women wear pastels, jewel tones, even neon! 3) Do not fret! We will have all sorts of aunties and professional drapers around to help with sarees! 4) HOT tip for women: get your saree pre-stiched or pre-draped if its offered! 5) Wear comfy shoes! The dancing is no joke!

Question

For our US friends: Are there different types of outfits for the various events?

Answer

Yes, but once again, don't feel like you HAVE to go out and buy new clothes! There are lots of ways to achieve a "look". We've attached a slide deck of outfit suggestions to help you fit in. There are both South Indian and American examples included. https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1XCeYA5sKEdpytySVh60DzZ1YMMz9KKdsN5Py_9K_pjc/edit?usp=sharing

Question

Food Porn

Answer

1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7en5vtDXHU 2) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KzFb0G3nGHo