We love your kids - we really do. But were hoping our wedding can be your night off. We kindly ask you let the toddlers run around the evening with a babysitter. If this is impossible, please just let us know and we will get them a seat.
If your invitation says "and guest" then of course, if not then we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail attire but we want you to be comfortable. For the ladies, much of the walkway is brick pavers so stiletto heels may be difficult to walk in, I recommend a thicker heel or wedge.