We love your kids, but want to keep our wedding day kid-free. We understand that it's a holiday weekend and you may want your kids close by, so feel free to bring them to the resort, but the ceremony and reception/dance will be an adult only event :)
Nah, leave that bad boy at home! :)
Get outta town!
We would prefer if you reached out to us, as bringing someone unannounced can throw off a lot of food/table arrangements. Plus, i'm sure your new GF is amazing and we'd love to meet her.