FAQs

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What should I bring?

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Bathing suits, a good attitude, and an open mind! We have people of all walks of life coming to this party. Talks of homophobia, transphobia, & bigotry will not be tolerated. We will politely ask you to leave regardless of who you are. This is supposed to be a fun weekend full of love and shenanigans. Just be a good human and PARTY!

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When should I RSVP by?

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The earlier the better! The latest is April 15th

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If anyone asks its a *FAMILY REUNION *

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Since we’re not having a wedding ceremony—just a party—we want to avoid the unnecessary fees that come with that label. So, when talking about the weekend, please call it a party or reunion.

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No ceremony? What do you mean no ceremony?!

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We’re not fans of traditional weddings or the production that comes with them. We just want to throw an awesome party with the people we love—just good times.

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But what about the marriage license?!

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We will be signing a marriage license sometime on Sunday 5/25/2025, it will NOT be a big production. No, there isn’t a set time. If you want to witness us scribbling on a piece of paper, you’re welcome to lurk and join in a champagne/prosecco toast afterward.

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Do we need to buy a gift?

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Absolutely not! Your presence means more than presents. Gifts are NOT necessary! We are excited to celebrate our love with you and how each one of you has supported us/our relationship. That said, if you really want to contribute, feel free to check out our registry.

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What's the food/drink situation like?

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We’ve got it covered! If there’s something specific you must have, feel free to bring it. Otherwise, just bring your appetite.

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"But what do I wear!?"

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(If you didn't picture Jim Carry in the Grinch reciting that line then we can't be friends anymore) Wear anything you're comfortable with!! We literally don't care, pajamas, jorts, Drag, sweatpants, bathing suit, potato sack, three piece suit, birthday suit. (Maybe not birthday suit it's not that kinda party..... not until after midnight)

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Shenanigans? What do you mean.... Shenanigan's?

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There’s a reason our road names are "Chaos" and "Savage". Expect a good time. What happens at the party stays at the party … mostly. BUT there will be photos so if you don't want it photographed, don't do it

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What's a Road Name?

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A "Road Name" is a nickname used to identify a biker or motorcycle club member, often reflecting their personality, riding style, or group affiliation. It's a moniker bestowed on someone as a reminder of an event or trait that was impactful or meaningful. If you know us, you know we live up to ours: Brooke - Savage Erika - Chaos Punch - Rebel

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Can I bring my children?

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Guest capacity is limited. If your kids are invited, their names will be on the invitation, or we’ll have told you directly. Any unaccounted-for children will be sacrificed to the lake monster to appease the Motorcycle Gods.

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Can I bring a date/someone I met on tinder/my best friend?

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See above: guest count is capped. If you have a +1, it will be clearly stated on your invite. If it doesn’t say +1, congrats—you’re rolling solo. Don’t worry, plenty of amazing people will be there, you won't be lonely. Any uninvited guests will also be sacrificed to the lake monster. It’s a whole thing.

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Is Erika having too much fun creating and answering these questions on the FAQ page?

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Yes. Yes I am.

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Does Brooke regret giving Erika free reign of the website and FAQ page?

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Probably...She hasn't seen it yet. Oh, I have — No regrets—yet. She is clearly having fun with it and happy. There's an old saying about that...