We love your kids - we really do. If you are joining us in Carpinteria CA for our Wedding Ceremony we want it to be your night off! However, if you are joining us in South Dakota for the Reception BBQ, please bring your kids with!!
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes. If not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Semi-Formal. It may get chilly in the evening so don't forget your jacket!