The ceremony is scheduled for 5pm, so Eric would recommend arriving by 4:45pm. Elissa will have someone managing her to make sure she arrives on time.
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! If you are in need of child care, the hotel may have a list of sitters, and care.com is a great service.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
The wedding is a short walk from the hotels. If you're staying elsewhere, we're thrilled to report that Uber and Lyft finally made it to Rochester!
Cocktail attire or some approximation of that. Shoes comfortable enough to dance all night.