Flight
If you are flying in for the wedding, here are some of the closest airports to consider: LARGE AIRPORTS Newark International (1.5 hour drive or so) Laguardia (1.75 hour drive or so) JFK (2 hour drive or so) SMALL AIRPORTS Westchester County Airport (1.2 hour drive or so) Scranton/Wilkes Barre (1.25 hour drive or so) Stewart International (40 minute drive or so)
Train
There is a train station in Port Jervis (where Cedar Lakes Estate is located). If you are coming from NYC and want to have a car-less weekend, you can take the train to Port Jervis and arrange a pick up to your final destination from there. The train station is about 15 minutes from Cedar Lakes Estate. Click the link below for train route details - it's about a 2.5 hour trip with a train line change along the way.