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Emmy & Tom

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Is there anything important I should know?

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Our celebration will include all of the people we love, including people who are different races, sexual orientations, and genders. If you are not able to be respectful of people due to these differences, we ask that you do not attend.

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What should I wear?

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Please wear whatever makes you comfortable, but we suggest festive, colorful, kitsch attire. Check out this Pinterest board for outfit inspiration! https://www.pinterest.com/emilinecate/wedding-guest-inspiration/

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Will there be food?

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You bet! We'll have plenty of passed appetizers and buffet-style food. We'll have veggie and gluten-free options.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Absolutely! There will be an open beer and wine bar with one or two signature cocktails!

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Why are there so many things in my invitation?

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Because we're doing too much! You're invitation should include two things you'll want to bring to the wedding with you. 1. )A recipe card: Instead of a guest book, we're collecting recipes from our favorite people to fill Emmy's grandparent's recipe box. Bring it with you to add to the box at the wedding or mail it to us so you don't have to worry about it that day. 2.) A city wide token: City Wides are a Philly tradition and you'll have your chance to get one at our wedding! It's one per person so make sure you have your token to turn in for your city wide that day.

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How should I get to the venue?

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There are plenty of options to get to the event. We recommend taking SEPTA, Philly's local public transportation system or using a ride share like Uber or Lyft. Check the Travel page for more information!

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Can I bring additional people not on the invite?

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When you RSVP, you'll see a list of the people in your group we planned for. Sorry, we don't have space at the venue or budget to add additional people.

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Are kids invited?

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If your child is listed on the RSVP, they're invited. But please be aware that the venue is a bar that will have bowling, a live band that will likely be loud, and there will be a lot of people there. This may not be an appropriate environment for every child. Please use your best judgment when deciding if your little ones should join you. The after party is 21+. Sorry, kids!

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When's the ceremony?

Answer

We decided to forgo a ceremony and already eloped. We can't wait to celebrate our marriage with you all!

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