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FAQs

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP for our ceremony & reception by September 30, 2026. If you are invited to stay on the farm, please fill out the farm stay RSVP by July 1.

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Where should I stay?

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There are several recommended hotels on the Travel page of our website. We did not reserve a block of rooms to allow for maximum flexibility—we know that lots of folks will be renting places to stay together and have mini-reunions!

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Is parking available?

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Yes, there is plenty of free parking right outside of the Sanctuary Farm Barn!

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Is transportation provided?

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We do not have transportation organized to or from the Farm, but we do have the venue for the entire weekend — if you can't drive home safely, leave your car and pick her up in the morning!

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What is the dress code?

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Dress sharp! Cocktail attire, a dramatic costume, or that thing you've been dying to wear are all welcome. Blazers are very optional—we love a good jacket or a nice sweater. Much of the venue is outside, so wear shoes that won't sink into the ground!

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Are plus ones and children allowed?

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We've carefully curated our guest list to fit as many of our favorite people as possible into an intimate setting, so only persons who are specifically listed on your RSVP form are invited. Please refrain from bringing any additional guests—we send our love from afar!

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Is it okay to take photos and post them on social media?

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We will have a dedicated photographer for our wedding, so we hope that you feel that the pressure is off to capture the big moments! Snap as many photos as you'd like, but we would much rather see your faces than your flash during our ceremony. We are happy for you to post any photos from our wedding at any time online, as long as they do not feature any children. Thank you for helping us keep our little ones offline :)

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our wedding will be both indoors and outdoors, so bring a layer or two to keep yourself warm and cozy up by the bonfire!

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No booze?!

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We've chosen to stick with beer + wine for the wedding to keep permits and licensing to a minimum—we hope you enjoy drinks on us!

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Is the venue accessible?

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Yes, Sanctuary Farm is an accessible venue! Please reach out to us to organize any transportation assistance across the farm.