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October 25, 2025
New Bern, NC
#TookTheBate

The Bates

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When should I reserve my spot?

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To help us with planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, the final RSVP deadline is September 25th, 2025.

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What is "formal attire?”

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We’re so excited to celebrate with you, and we want everyone to look and feel their best! For our wedding, the dress code is form attire. For women, mid-full length dresses. For men, suit and tie.

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Will dinner be served?

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Yes, absolutely! We will be serving a full meal along with a variety of hors d'oeuvres to enjoy as you mingle. There will be a wonderful selection of food throughout the evening. All entrées will be gluten-free and you can review the menu here on our site!

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Are children welcome?

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As much as we adore your little ones, our wedding is exclusively for adults, with the exception of our wedding party. Thank you for your understanding.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We cannot wait to celebrate with YOU! Due to our desire to keep the celebration intimate, we’re unable to offer a plus one to all guests. If you were specifically listed on the invitation with a guest’s name, you are more than welcome to bring them. If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to reach out to us directly!

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