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December 17, 2022
Tyler, TX

Emily & Vincent

    Better Together
    FAQs

FAQs

Question

Why did we decide to get married in the Cathedral?

Answer

Vincent and Emily grew up going to the Cathedral every Sunday. He obviously went to the morning services and I was always at the noon service. Both were baptized and raised in the church and we've always dreamed of being married there.

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Black-Tie: Wear floor-length gowns or formal cocktail dresses, tuxes with black neckties or bowties. We want to give you a reason to get all dolled up with us.

Question

What is the dress code in the Cathedral? (Important for the ladies)

Answer

If your dress is strapless or low cut please wear a shawl in the Cathedral at cocktail and reception feel free not wear it.

Question

Do I have to wear a Tux?

Answer

YES! I am hosting a Black-Tie event. If you do not have a tux please wear a slacks and a dress coat. Other options would be slacks a long-sleeved button up belt and tie. Our wedding is in December so you may need a jacket.

Question

Where is my wedding invitation?

Answer

If you didn't receive an invitation please CALL Emily or Vincent your invitation may have been returned or lost in the snail mail.

Question

What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

Answer

Please be at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception by 1:30 PM-1:45PM at the latest. The doors will be shut by 2:00PM sharp and will not open until after the ceremony has already started.

Question

What safety precautions will you be taking at your wedding?

Answer

Come and celebrate with us everyone who received and invitation is invited. Obviously if you're running a fever or throwing up please stay home, we are leaving it up to the guest on masking up, bathrooms will be easily accessible for handwashing. We have the whole country club to ourselves there will be table seating outside and inside for all our guest. We will also have assigned seating.

Question

Which airport should I fly into?

Answer

If you're traveling out of state, DFW International Airport and Love field are our suggestion. You will need to rent a car from there to travel to Tyler ( roughly 2 hrs). Tyler does have a small airport if renting a car and driving sounds over whelming. Tyler Pounds Regional Airport, you will most likely fly into Dallas and take a smaller aircraft to Tyler.

Question

I can't attend the wedding in person. Will there be a virtual wedding celebration?

Answer

Not sure, we will try.

Question

Are kids invited

Answer

YES! we Vincent and I would love the WHOLE family to be together on our special day!

Question

Where should I stay?

Answer

I've listed under travels Hotels that are near our venue. Everything is relatively close 20min max in traffic.

Question

Will there be an open bar?

Answer

We will have an open bar with limited drink selections. Please bring cash if you would like tip your bartenders.

Question

What do you want for a wedding gift?

Answer

Our registry is set up please visit that tab for suggestions.

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Where will I be sitting during the reception?

Answer

We will have assigned seating for all our guest. We will let everyone know closer to the date.

Question

Is there an after party?

Answer

OF COURSE! details later.

Question

Am I invited to Rehearsal Dinner?

Answer

I would love to have everyone who is invited to the wedding to come, but unfortunately I will not be able to host everyone for this event. Wedding party and Immediate family will be invited to rehearsal dinner.

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Will there be a vegetarian/gluten-free/dairy-free option for dinner during the reception?

Answer

Yes, Please let me know ahead of time so we can make sure.

Question

Can I request a song?

Answer

Yes, but this must be done a month before the wedding. My DJ will not be taking song request during the event.

Question

Can I get you something that’s not on your registry?

Answer

Yes, whatever it is I'm sure we'll love it.

Question

How late does your wedding reception go?

Answer

We've RSVP the place until 10PM could push it to 11PM. We all plan on going out to the bars afterwards.

Question

Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?

Answer

Ceremony is indoors, cocktail hour and reception is mainly indoors but you'll have the option to sit and dance outdoors as well.

Question

Are you having a morning after brunch?

Answer

Would like to, we still need to figure out what our options are.

Question

What will the weather be like?

Answer

Living in Texas you'll come to realize the weather is very unpredictable one day is sunny and 75 the next day its 14 and snowing. Hopefully it will be Sunny

Question

What will your wedding-day timeline look like?

Answer

This will be posted on our website. Please stay tune and if this isn't updated by the month of our wedding free to call me or reach out.

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Will transportation be provided?

Answer

Possibly, still working on this.

Question

Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

Answer

There will be plenty of parking at the Cathedral as well as at Holly Tree. Gentlemen, make sure you drop off your loved ones at the door and then look for parking, no need to have the WHOLE family walk through the parking lot.

Question

I have dietary restrictions/allergies. What's the best way to let you know?

Answer

Please let me know when your RSVP, so I can make the appropriate arrangements.

Question

Can I take pictures during the ceremony to post on social media?

Answer

Yes, but please be discrete during the ceremony. The church does have a strict policy on photography during the ceremony. Please make sure all flashes are off. Photos can be taken BEFORE the ceremony begins and AFTER.

Question

What's the best way to RSVP?

Answer

Best way to RSVP is on the website. For all my non tech savvy family members please call or text 1 month before the date.

Question

I'm visiting from out of town. What can I do while I'm in Tyler, TX?

Answer

Please see the things to do tab. We have listed a few of our favorite places, bars and restaurants in town.

Question

Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

Answer

Yes, There will be a table set up for all gifts.

Question

Will there be any other events to attend during the wedding weekend?

Answer

Possibly, it's December and Emily is the baby of her family. There family likes to party!

Question

How will you communicate any updated information and/or changes before the wedding?

Answer

Updates regarding the wedding will be updated here on the website. If there is any significant changes we will reach out to everyone directly via email or phone.

Question

What is the best way to contact you if you have additional questions?

Answer

Please CALL Vincent or Emily if you have additional questions. However, if you have a question 2 weeks prior to the wedding date please phone a friend or family member who is attending this event.

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