FAQs

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Please Read: Visiting Hawaii Respectfully.

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Aloha family and friends! We are so excited to be hosting our wedding in one of our most favorite places, a place where we, along with so many others, call home. That being said, we'd love for you to take some time to read through and explore the following website to learn more about how to visit Hawaii respectfully. Understanding and following these guidelines helps us all to honor the island’s rich culture and protect its natural beauty. It ensures that we contribute positively to the local community and preserve Hawaii for future generations. Mahalo! https://www.gohawaii.com/trip-planning/travel-tips/responsible-travel

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What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP no later than December 20th, 2025. We must give our final numbers to our venue and vendors in a timely manner, therefore if you have not submitted your RSVP by December 20th, 2025 you will be marked down as a "No" response. We will miss you at our wedding however we will not be able to accommodate late RSVPs.

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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If you cannot attend, please indicate "Will NOT Attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", but find that you will not be able to make it, please email us at emilyandjaredgornay@gmail.com as soon as possible.

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Can I bring a guest/date?

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We are only able to accommodate those specifically listed out on your invitation. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out!

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What is the dress code for the ceremony & reception?

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Please navigate to "Guest Attire..." above, or check out our curated Pinterest board: https://pin.it/5jv4Zab0y

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Is there a dress code for the sunset cruise?

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Please navigate to "Guest Attire..." above, or check out our curated Pinterest board: https://pin.it/6JJJ2qFNn

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 10:00am. Please plan to arrive by 9:45am to ensure you have plenty of time to find parking.

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Can I take pictures/videos during the ceremony?

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Although we appreciate that you may want to snap some pictures, we kindly request that you honor our 'unplugged' ceremony. We have an incredible photographer to capture our day, and will be sure to share lots of photos with you after the wedding. If you would like to take pictures and videos following the ceremony, you are more than welcome!

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Where are the wedding weekend events located on the island in relation to each other?

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The hotel recommendations under "Travel" are all in the heart of Waikiki, just 8 miles from the airport. Our welcome picnic will be 20 miles northeast, on the beautiful windward side. The ceremony and reception are just 10 miles from Waikiki/Honolulu, in Kaneohe, and only 3 miles apart from each other. To wrap up the weekend, we’ll set sail for a sunset cruise that will depart from and return to Honolulu!