FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by August 10, 2025. We ask that you are timely in your response to attend to ensure we have ample time to communicate the number of guests, meal options, and special requests to our venue. If you are unable to attend, we ask that you RSVP "no" as soon as possible. Anyone that has not RSVP'd by August 10, 2025 we will mark as "not attending" when providing our vendors with the final guest count. If you do not RSVP by the listed date and would like to attend, please contact us as soon as possible. Thank you for understanding.
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP right here on the website! Select the RSVP tab and follow the instructions. Alternatively, you can scan the QR code in the bottom right corner of your invitation, this will take you directly to the RSVP page! The RSVP link will ask if you are attending, what your meal preference is, and any special dietary requests/restrictions if applicable.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Our ceremony is scheduled to begin at 4:30 PM. We recommend arriving early to ensure you can find parking and a good seat. As you arrive at the venue, you will see a circular archway, enter here to find ceremony seating. The ideal time to arrive would be around 4:00 PM.
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Can I take pictures/videos during the ceremony?
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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we kindly ask that all phones and cameras be put away and silenced. We have designated one person from each side of our families that are allowed to take photos/videos as a favor to us. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best moments, which we will share with you all. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like during cocktail hour and the reception!
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Will the wedding be outdoors?
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Yes! The ceremony will be outdoors, please plan accordingly. We will open our indoor reception space following the ceremony. We are hoping for good weather, however, if the weather happens to prevent an outdoor ceremony we will communicate our back up plan to guests.
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Is there parking available at the venue?
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Yes! As you drive in to the Essex Resort & Spa, you will follow the loop around the hotel parking lot to The Farmhouse. There, you will see a parking lot directly to the right of you.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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Please refer to the Travel page of our website for hotel recommendations. In addition to the hotels listed, there are also a number of chain hotels within the area that guests can stay at. Expect a short drive to the venue so please plan accordingly.
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What is the dress code?
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We'd love to see our friends and family get dressed up for our big day. Who doesn't love an excuse to dress up?! Ladies can wear floor length, tea length, mid length dresses or jumpsuits/pantsuits. Men can wear dress-shirts and pants. Please note: We ask you to refrain from shorts, jeans, t-shirts or white attire, please.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes, you can find our registry details on the "Registry" section of our website. We are also registered on Amazon.
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I have a food allergy, how should I let you know?
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Yes! Please contact us prior to the RSVP date listed on your invitation and type this into your RSVP. We will be sure to communicate your allergy to our catering company and we will ensure that your food is prepared safely.
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Will there be alcohol at the reception?
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Yes, there will be a hosted bar during the cocktail hour and reception. Signature cocktails and an assortment of other beverage options will be served. Additionally, a champagne toast will be served during the reception. We kindly ask that you do not bring your own alcohol, as our venue has a strict policy against outside beverages. Please drink responsibly and plan a ride home. We want everyone to have fun and get home safely!