Flight
You could fly into either airport depending on which one is cheaper! Ronald Reagan is just a tad closer to Stafford, but you could stay in Fredricksburg (which is more south) or closer to DC!
Hotel
I have block booked some rooms at the Fairfield Inn. It is a 5 min drive from our house and 20 from the winery, but feel free to explore other options. There are plenty of hotel or Airbnb options in Stafford, Fredericksburg, Woodbridge, or closer to DC. Let us know if you have any questions! Use the link below to book with our group discount.