FAQs

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Is the wedding all indoors?

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Yes! The church, cocktail hour deck, and venue are fully heated. The only ones braving New England January outdoors will be the bridal party for photos!

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What if there's a blizzard?

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The venue can be operated fully on generator power and have their own plow company. All locations are intentionally within close proximity to one another. The church is 20 minutes away from The Barn and the Groton Inn is 2 minutes away. Hotel accommodations can be made up until the day of the wedding. Let's pray for easy winter weather!

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What time should I arrive?

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The wedding mass will start promptly at 2pm. We ask that all guest please arrive no later than 1:50pm.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unless specified on your invitation, we kindly ask that no guests bring plus ones. We are looking forward to an intimate night spent with the friends and family we love!

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Are my kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding mass and reception an adult-only event with exception of our bridal party. Enjoy your date night!

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What is the attire?

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Attire will be formal. We would love to see everyone dressed in their best, nothing is too fancy! Floor length dresses preferred for women. Our bridal party will be in champagne/golds, please refrain from these colors. Suit and ties preferred for men. No jeans please. There is a coat room provided at the barn to store any winter layers.

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Can I take my own photos?

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At the reception, of course, PLEASE do! While inside the church, we ask that all guest please silence your cell phones and keep them stored in pockets/purses. The mass is the most important part of the day to us and our hope is for all of our friends and family to be spiritually present and respectful throughout the mass. We have a great photographer!

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Gifts

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We are so blessed and excited to celebrate our special day with our loved ones! Your presence and support of our marriage are the most meaningful gifts we can ask for. If you are considering purchasing a wedding gift, we kindly request monetary contributions to our future or registry specific items as we have very limited space in our townhome.