We love your kiddos (I mean, I'm a teacher!) but this is going to be an adults only celebration.
Cocktail Attire. We are planning for an outdoor ceremony so I would not recommend the stilettos! The day/night will be taking place on a farm and inside the barn. The end of October can bring about any kind of weather--hot, cold, rain, snow --so make sure to check the forecast beforehand. (Last year it was beautiful, so fingers crossed for the same this year!)
Yes, we will have a shuttle to take you from the hotels to the venue and back. If you are staying somewhere else, you should be able to park and take the shuttle from the hotels.
Don't get me wrong, Halloween is my favorite holiday; but no, it is not a Halloween themed wedding. 😁