FAQs
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How can I be inclusive at the wedding?
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We are holding a loving, inclusive, fun weekend bringing together people of various walks of life, and we ask you to be respectful and open-minded when interacting with one-another. On pronouns: Please don't assume the pronouns of other guests. If you're unsure, it's always okay to ask, and you can share yours at the same time! If you're talking about someone who isn't present to ask, you can just use their name, or a description of what they're wearing. E.g. "you see that person over there in the blue dress? Remind me to ask them for the recipe they used for the vegan sausage rolls!" Mistakes might be made and that is okay! What's best to do is correct yourself and move on, or if you're corrected by someone else, simply say 'thank you', correct your wording and carry on. It might take a bit of practise, but the difference it makes to individuals is definitely worth it! Em's pronouns are they/ them, and Megs' are they/ she. If you'd like to learn more, please have a look at these links: - Stonewall UK - guides on pronoun use and LGBTQ+ inclusion - https://www.stonewall.org.uk/ - Gendered Intelligence - accessible resources on gender identity - https://genderedintelligence.co.uk/ We're so grateful to be surrounded by people who love and support us and we hope you'll extend that same love to everyone you meet at our wedding weekend.
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What's the dress code?
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This weekend is about celebrating us, so please wear something that makes you feel excited and special. You have full permission to wear Indian clothing, and if you'd like help with this, please ask Megs. We can think of nothing better than a rainbow of bright, sparkling outfits to look out to as we tie the knot! Please don't wear red or white as these colours are reserved for the to-be-weds. If you're keen to explore, try searching: Lehenga, Salwar Suit, Saree, Anarkali, Kurta, Bundi Jacket, Bandhgala. You can get some amazing bargains on Vinted, or try South Asian areas/ shops near you.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We’re keeping our wedding small and intimate, with close family and friends present for the entire weekend, so we kindly request the presence of only those named on invitations, without additional guests. We hope you understand and look forward to sharing this special time with you.
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Can I help with anything?
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We have added this question as lots of you lovely folk have reached out to ask us if you can help us out with planning and executing. This warms our hearts so much, so thank you. The honest answer is yes, we'd love your help. If you're happy to contribute time to cook a dish during the wedding weekend, or happy to be in charge of the video camera for a while, this would be greatly appreciated. Just let us know you're happy to help and we'll add you to our amazing helpers list.
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How do I RSVP?
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We only need a digital RSVP from you, so feel free to RSVP through this website. There's no need to post us your response.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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Not currently. If you'd like to give us a gift, please consider contributing towards our Honeymoon Fund. It goes without saying, but your presence is more than enough and we do not expect gifts. We're just excited to spend time with you.
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What is the plan with food for the weekend?
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We have chosen this venue partially because it gives everyone a sense of autonomy and private space. If meals are wished to be shared, they can be, or if some alone-time is desired, that works too. Each house has its own kitchen, with fridge, oven, cupboards, etc, so you are free to bring whatever you'd like for yourself in terms of food and drink. Friday: Dinner - Pot-luck, details in 'Schedule' tab Saturday: Breakfast - Self-catered Lunch - Self-catered Dinner - Pot-luck, including any leftovers from Friday night. Sunday: Breakfast - Self-catered Lunch - Self-catered Dinner - Provided (you can relax!) Monday: Breakfast - Self-catered/ Brunch somewhere local if desired post-check out!
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Is there parking?
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Yes there is sufficient parking for everyone onsite. We encourage lift sharing, so if you are looking for a space in a car, or have a space free in your car, please let us know and we can match appropriate parties together.
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Can I get there without a car?
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Yes, you have a few options: 1. Take a train to 'Bournemouth' and then a bus to 'Fox Lane, Little Canford', which is a 6 min drive away. You can either meet a pre-booked taxi at this point, or call one of us to come and get you. 2. Take a National Express coach to 'Ringwood', which is a 15 min drive away. You can either meet a pre-booked taxi at this point, or call one of us to come and get you.
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Can I take photos on my phone?
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We kindly ask that you keep our wedding 'unplugged' and refrain from taking any photos or videos using your phone during the events. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special time.
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Will dietary requirements be accommodated for?
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Absolutely, please make sure any dietary requirements are recorded when you RVSP.
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Is there an open bar?
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We are providing a good amount of drinks for guests for the Sunday, including alcoholic, non-alcoholic, and various soft drinks, but if you'd like to purchase additional or alternative drinks, there is a functioning bar onsite with 'pub-like' prices for the Saturday and Sunday. You are also welcome to bring your own food and drink (including alcohol) as each property has it's own kitchen to store anything you'd like.
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Is the wedding outdoors?
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Weather permitting, the ceremony will be held in a woodland area onsite under the partial shade of some trees. All other events will take place inside a beautiful barn, also onsite.
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Are pets welcome for the weekend?
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Due to the fact we will all be sharing the site together, and not everyone is comfortable around animals, no pets will be permitted for the weekend, sorry for any inconvenience.
