During our first date I had an over inflated ego. I was very impressed with myself and how cool, calm, and mysterious I was being. I noticed how Kallysta couldn't maintain eye contact, her hands shook every time she reached for her beer. My charms were expertly working on her. Then, reaching for my own beer, I saw my own hand shake. I was toast. As we got to know each other over the next couple of months, it was uncanny how many times our lives have overlapped and we were none the wiser. How many times had our worlds almost collided? How many times did we almost run into each other? Would we have gotten along if we met back then? Well, I can answer that one. No. We absolutely would not have gotten along. Sometimes, we meet people exactly when we are supposed to.