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How do I RSVP?

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Please accept or decline on this website by September 12th. If you do not respond by the deadline, your "no" will automatically be filled in for you and your attendance will be counted as absent.

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What is the attire?

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Cocktail, also interchangeable with semi-formal! Men, wear a suit or sports coat and dress pants. Ladies, a mid to ankle length dress in formal fabric like chiffon, georgette, jacquard, lace, or silk. Pinterest has great inspiration! Please be aware that this event will be outdoors and will take place late enough in the day that it may be cooler. No jeans, denim, or white/cream dresses.

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Where do I park?

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There is NO parking allowed at the venue. Street parking is for residents only so you risk being towed if you choose to park nearby. Uber voucher will be provided at the hotel we've booked the block at. If you're a local, extra parking spots have been reserved for you at the hotel for $10 where you may then Uber to the venue.

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Are kids invited?

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In order to allow all guests, including parents, an evening of relaxation, we have chosen for our wedding day to be an adult only occasion. We appreciate you making prior arrangements.

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How to use the Uber voucher?

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Please download the Uber app and enter Wrensmoor Castle as your drop off. The app will automatically locate your pickup spot. Edit your payment selection (payment will be the voucher code) before finalizing your ride and enter the code that was provided to you at check-in.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please plan to arrive no later than 3:30pm to ensure everyone is settled in their seats before the beginning of the ceremony. The venue is a private gated residence and we will be closing the entrance gate promptly at 4pm which you will then not be able to enter until after the ceremony.

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How do I get inside the venue?

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Please allow 10-15 min of extra time to find the entrance! I have gotten lost the first few times I visited. You will enter on Grand View Dr and come up the driveway. Please get dropped off BEFORE you enter the inside of the premise. You Uber can then exit out the delivery gate on Alta Vista Dr.

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Can I have my phone out during the ceremony?

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We’ve chosen to have an UNPLUGGED ceremony. Please respect our wishes and turn your phones off during the ceremony. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We love our photographers and you will too!

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Can I bring a date?

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In this economy?! But actually… if you have received a plus one, their name will appear under yours when you RSVP on the website. Thank you for understanding!

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Where will the ceremony and reception be?

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The ceremony will be held outside the venue! No need to travel in between. The reception will take place at the same property.

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I have a question not answered here; how do I contact you?

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If you still have any questions that are not answered here, please feel free to text Elysse. I appreciate you taking the time to read through and hope this can alleviate any questions/concerns.

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