FAQs

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What is a Bar Mitzvah?

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A bar/bat mitzvah is a rite of passage to celebrate a Jewish boy or girl entering adulthood. Bar = boys, Bat = girls. This milestone is typically held around the boy’s thirteenth birthday (Elliott turns 13 on October 6th).

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What will happen during the service?

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Elliott will read from the Torah, the Rabbi and family members will say prayers and blessings. A Bar Mitzvah can take place at a synagogue or at any space with a Rabbi; in this case the Rabbi and the Torah will come to our venue for the ceremony.

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Do I come to the service and the party?

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Yes! Similar to a wedding, all the guests will come to the service (ceremony) and the celebrate with us at the party (reception).

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What do I wear?

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The ceremony isn't in a synagogue, but people will dress like they would to go to any religious service (at a synagogue or church). Suits, dresses, etc. The party is dressy, but more fun and relaxed! Come ready to dance and have a good time!

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What will happen after the service?

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We'll have a Kiddush lunch (bagels, etc.) and everyone can chat and congratulate El! Then everyone has a break to go home / to their hotel, rest, change, and get ready for the party!