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Where?

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The Poor&Hungry cafe at 1532 Madison Ave Memphis Tn, 38104

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When?

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Drinks and Dessert start at 7pm, and then Bands! That's right- instead of Pachelbel you get Pop Punk! The Bands should kick off at 9pm! Shame Finger with special guest-drummer Josh McClaine, HEELS (because everything Josh and Brennan say are in capital letters) and The Glory Holes- in all of their glory. Those whom choose to be responsible adults will not be shamed publicly for leaving at a reasonable hour. What's that? You want to help, or volunteered to help and I forgot to tell you when to be there? No worries, as soon as we know when will be a generally non-annoying hour for Robert and Matt to let us show up, we'll put it on here. What do we need help with? * Desserts! (*With allergy tags, please. If one of my Soldiers survives war, only to be taken out by shell-fish, I'mma be mad.) * Reasonably healthy snacks * Non healthy snacks Decorations! Nope, no theme, just go wild with neat stuff but please only things you will take down yourself <3 Cleaning! (after the show please)

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How so?

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This is about having all the best parts of a wedding without the boring stuff. In that spirit we will be having drinks and dessert starting at 7pm. Beer and Cider will be provided for our guests, but its BYOB on liquor with a set up fee. The bar will also be open and taking drink orders, so tip well. Later in the evening we will have musical entertainment from Heels, The Glory Holes, and Shamefinger, and you are invited to bring dollar bills to enrich the experience by respectfully shoving them at the bands/ bartenders. We invite our guests to take this opportunity to dress fancy, comfortably, or an amalgam of both. No need to buy new stuff- that Blue Power Job interview suit or Ball(er) gown you have lying around. We cannot stress enough this is only going down because of the kindness of others. The bands are playing on a Sunday night, also Robert and Matt are doing this on their only night off. Please be respectful, patient, and generous to those amazing enough to have our backs.