Becky & Elliott
FAQs
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Are children welcome?
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To the weekend, yes, of course! We love your kids, but we are asking that any wedding festivities be kept to those addressed on the invitation. We hope you understand. The Meritage has supplied a list of approved babysitters listed below. Destination Sitters - destinationsitters.com Nannies of the Valley - nanniesofthevalley.net Napa Lilly-Bugs (Bethany Noel Javier) - bethanynp@hotmail.com - 530.386.6518 - 707.996.5973
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What's the wedding theme and hashtag? #1111MakeAWish
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Yes! 11:11 is considered an "angel number" which signifies a moment or time period when the Opportunity Portal is open and you can communicate your wants and needs — your wishes — to your angels. It can even just be a moment of gratitude, it can be a sign that you're on the right path, or signify a new beginning. The 6th grader in us says, "11:11! Make a wish!" when glancing at the clock and seeing the repetitive 1s. Today, we'd notice a text sent at that exact time, the total on a receipt, little angelic nods and winks of reassurance. So, we'd love you to use the hashtag #1111MakeAWish on anything you post on Social Media so we can relive the day through your lens, as well. You'll also see hidden gems of the concept scattered throughout the wedding, so keep your eyes peeled for those wishing opportunities!
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What's the dress code?
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Formal, tie optional. Men can wear a nice suit and choose to wear a tie, or not. Get crazy, live a little! Ladies, slightly elevated from cocktail attire, but no need to go black tie formal.
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Anything in particular that I'll need?
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A couple things! First, is that Napa does get chilly in the evening in the Fall. Plan to bring layers. Secondly, our ceremony site is a small walk upstairs to the Vineyard Deck. You'll want a pair of flats, slides or sneakers to get you up there. We will have a shuttle up to the Vineyard Deck for those participating in the ceremony and anyone who may require some assistance. Please don't hesitate to communicate your needs.
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I can't make it, but I want to celebrate with y'all! What can I do?
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We feel you! Of course, we want you there, but we also understand that a destination wedding is a huge financial commitment and life can have other plans. We're seeing if we can finagle a Zoom link for the ceremony on 11.11, but we'll also be having a more casual get-together after the wedding on the East Coast. Stay tuned for details, but please communicate with us if you're interested in coming!
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Where's Tyrone? I came for him!
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We love that. Tyrone is having a sleepover with some of his buddies at his favorite daycare. Ask Becky and she will, without hesitation, pull their cameras up and show you.