I'd wear something comfortable and warm for the cold weather in October but also something church nice.
We will be dancing on tile inside the Church building.
For the Ceremony there are two main parking lots that are open as well as spaced out parking around the rose garden. There will be people there to help direct you. For the Reception parking will be in the back past the barn down the gravel road.
We will have gluten free options for dinner and dessert.