FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP and let us know who you are bringing (if applicable) by November 1st 2025. You can do so in the "RSVP" tab on this website.

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What time should I get there?

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We ask that you plan to arrive 30 minutes early. The garden and heated pavilion will be open to settle in before the ceremony!

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Can I arrive late?

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We understand that everyone has work and responsibilities. You are welcome to arrive anytime! All we ask is that you do not walk in/out during the ceremony (it's short, it won't be hard), and that you try to arrive before 6pm.

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What should I wear?

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If you know anything about us, you know we prioritize comfort! So, while the dress code is formal, black-tie optional, we also don't want you to be uncomfortable all night. Please remember to have an outfit on-hand for the after party and feel free to change into it whenever you feel you've had enough of the dress, heels, makeup/suit, tie, dress shoes of it all! (We will be changing into our comfies as soon as the dance floor opens)

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Do I need to dress for the weather?

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While there will be opportunities to spend time outside (with bonfires), there will ALWAYS be an indoor, heated option. There will be a coat check and assigned seating, so you don't have to worry about where to leave your belongings.

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Can I bring a date?

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Invitations will specify for each person individually. We want everyone celebrating our day with us to be more than just a "plus one". If your invitation indicates "plus one", please let us know who you intend to bring ASAP. We want to invite them personally!

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Can I stay at The Vandiver Inn?

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While some rooms may be available closer to the wedding, we want to ensure our close family and friends get rooms before offering it to the public.

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Will there be transportation provided?

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Everything we have planned will be in walking distance once you get to the venue. We are not providing shuttles, so please plan accordingly. There is parking on-site if you end up driving.

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Can I take photos at the wedding?

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We ask that you limit your phone use to a minimum throughout the night, and have your phones completely off for the ceremony. We want everyone to be as present as possible.