Travel Note
Check out the link below. There are plenty of places to choose from including some right next to disneyland! According to Airbnb if it is your first time you will get a credit if you use this link. I will get some credit too. https://www.airbnb.com/c/elizabethv7763?currency=USD
Flight
John Wayne is the closest airport to both Dana Point and Costa Mesa. It is approx 30 minutes away from Dana Point and 10 minutes away from Costa Mesa.
Travel Note
I suggest staying somewhere close to Costa Mesa. The reception is the last event on Friday and if you are planning on going to Disneyland (which I hope you are), its approximately 20 minute drive.