FAQs
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When should I R.S.V.P ?
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Please RSVP by April 9, 2026. Once invitations have been mailed, the RSVP portal will open. It is preferred you RSVP on the website, but you may also do so by calling or texting us at either 360-907-0563 or 570-616-7299 once you’ve received your invitation.
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Where is the wedding?
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The wedding will take place at Skyline Lodge, located in Highland Forest in Fabius, NY. The physical address is: 1254 Highland Forest Rd. Fabius, NY 13063
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Entry and Parking
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To enter Highland Forest, there is no fee. Parking is located at the venue, and is ample and free. There will be signs outside and inside the venue indicating you are at the correct place for the wedding.
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What is the weather?
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Weather in early May in Central New York can be unpredictable. It can be sunny and in the 60s or blasting snow down in a final vengeful act of a lingering winter. Please check the weather leading up to the wedding so you feel properly prepared with attire. The reception will be indoors, but the ceremony will be outdoors. The ceremony will be moved indoors only in the case of extreme weather.
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What is the attire?
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We are that annoying couple that would define it as "dressed down cocktail". We invite attire such as dresses, skirts, blouses, button-down shirts (long sleeve or short sleeve), dress pants, slacks, khakis, etc. We view our wedding as a celebration, and would love to see our guests dressed up to the degree they are comfortable. Examples of attire outside the dress code include jeans, shorts, tank tops, or graphic tees.
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How long is the wedding?
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We have our venue from 12 pm-10 pm. We will be starting our ceremony at 3:30 pm, and ask that guests arrive no earlier than 3 pm to allow for setup. Final send-off and goodbyes will wrap up at 8:30 pm, which will give enough time for take-down. Set up and take down is a task delegated to certain individuals, who know who they are. So for our guests, all you have to do is show up between 3:30 and 8:30 and enjoy the wedding!
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Plus-1s and Children
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Due to the smaller nature of our wedding, we may not be able to extend plus-ones to all guests. If you have been invited to include a plus-one, it will be stated on your Save the Date & Invitation. When filling out the RSVP on the website, it will prompt you to add the name of your plus-one if one has been issued with your invite. Children are welcome at this wedding! We are taking into account our guests who have children, and have an anticipatory number. If you are a guest and have children, when RSVPing, please confirm their attendance.
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Registry and Gifts
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We appreciate and love all our family and friends, and do not expect any monetary or physical gifts. However, if you would like to contribute to our registry, we have it both linked on this website and here. Due to our nomadic lifestyle, we do ask that no additional gifts be purchased or bought that are not on the registry. For those inclined, we will have a box for cards at our venue.
