Flight
TVC airport is a short 15 minute drive away from downtown Traverse City. It has regular flights connecting to major airports in Detroit, Chicago, New York, Boston, and Denver. Other good alternatives would be to fly into Detroit Metroit Airport (DTW, 4 hour drive from Traverse City) or O'Hare (ORD, 5 hour drive from Traverse City) and then drive up.
Hotel
This is the hotel where we will be staying, but we are unable to reserve a block of rooms for the wedding because the wedding will be in the middle of tourist season. Please feel free to book here or any other of the myriad hotels and resorts available in TC.