Wedding Party
Elise Amanti
Bride
Patrick Stopka
Groom
Lori Walker
Matron of Honor
Bestest friend for 37 years! I can't imagine my life without her, she has been by my side through everything. From our childhood days, pretending to be brides, to laughing until our stomachs hurt & crying through life's hardest moments! She knows me better than anyone. She is not just my best friend; she's my family, my safe place, my person!
Sarah Litz
Bridesmaid
Sister of the Bride & Bestie! We've shared everything - laughs, tears, secrets, late-night talks & memories we'll never forget. She has been my rock through thick and thin, and I honestly can't imagine taking this next chapter without her by my side. She has been there for every part of my life!
Kelly McDonnell
Bridesmaid
Cousin of the Bride! She is my friend, my sister by heart. Growing up with our families so close gave us a lifetime of memories I'll forever be grateful for & I feel so incredibly blessed. Through laughter, chaos, milestones, and everything in between, she has always been by my side. Her love, support, and presence mean more to me than words can ever fully express.
Linda Zerwin
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride, Wife to Best Man (Wilber Seeley)! Some people come into your life unexpectedly & almost instantly, become incredibly important. Our friendship has grown into something so meaningful, and I'm endlessly grateful for that. Her presence, her heart, and the joy she brings mean so much to me!
Wilber Seelye
Best Man
I met Wilber Seelye at the Roselle Police Department over 30 years ago, where we quickly became more than just coworkers, we became great friends. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of watching him navigate both his career and life with integrity, humor, and a genuine kindness that leaves a lasting impression on everyone he meets. Even in retirement, those qualities haven’t changed, if anything, they’ve only grown stronger. Our friendship has been built on countless conversations, shared laughs, and mutual support through life’s ups and downs. He’s the kind of person who shows up when it matters most, and I’m grateful to call him not just a former colleague, but one of my closest friends. Standing by my side as the best man is truly an honor.
Dave Stopka
Groomsman
Dave is my brother & I’ve had a front-row seat to every phase of his life: the good, the bad, and the “please don’t tell anyone about this” moments. Growing up, he was equal parts protector and instigator. He’d stand up for me in one moment, and in the next, he’d be the reason I needed defending. That’s kind of been his brand…fiercely loyal, a little chaotic, but always there when it matters most. Over the years, he’s gone from being just my brother to being one of my closest friends. He’s the person I can count on to tell me the truth, make me laugh when I need it most, and remind me not to take life too seriously. So, when it came time to choose my groomsmen, there was never a question. Having him stand beside me means more than I can really put into words.
Jason Kinander
Groomsman
I have known Jason Kinander for over 20 years. We initially met when I was a police officer, parked running radar in his parking lot. Since then, we have become close friends and colleagues. Jason may be my boss, but he’s also someone I’m proud to call a friend. His advice, encouragement, and good humor have meant a lot to me, and I’m excited to have him standing with me on my wedding day.
Paul Roux
Groomsman
Paul and I have built a great friendship through our time working together at Electri-Flex Company. Between the daily work grind and plenty of hilarious lunch chats, our friendship has grown into one filled with good laughs and great company. I always enjoy hanging out with Paul and appreciate his sense of humor, loyalty, and the easygoing friendship we share. I am so happy to have him standing by my side on our big day!