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Is this a kid-friendly event?Is this a kid-friendly event?

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Of course! As a couple, we both look forward to having your full families present (unless you need an excuse to have a night away), and will have kid-friendly activities!

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What should I expect during this traditional Orthodox wedding?What should I expect during this traditional Orthodox wedding?

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Our ceremony will last 45-60 minutes, and is largely chanted or sung rather than spoken. Guests may also notice more standing than a typical wedding ceremony (as you’re able). The service is made up of two main parts: the Betrothal, which includes the blessing and exchanging of rings, and the Crowning—the most iconic moment—when crowns are placed on our heads, symbolizing both honor and the sacrificial nature of marriage. You’ll also see our chosen Koumbaros (sponsors), who play an important spiritual role by supporting and praying for us throughout our entire marriage. In the Orthodox tradition, the focus is on the sacrament of marriage itself rather than individual expression, so no personal vows are exchanged. It is a deeply meaningful and symbolic ceremony, and we hope you find it as beautiful and special as we do!

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Is this venue easily accessible?Is this venue easily accessible?

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Our venue has ample parking, no long walks, and nothing physically strenuous to consider. If you need extra assistance or have any specific worries, please let the bride or groom know. We are happy to help!

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May I bring a plus-one?May I bring a plus-one?

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We are very blessed to have many people to accommodate on our wedding day, so we ask that, unless specifically instructed, you RSVP only for the names included on your invitation. Feel free to reach out to the bride or groom if you have a specific request!

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Church property rules?Church property rules?

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Our hosts have not given us a formal set of rules, but we do ask that you leave any mind altering substances at home out of respect to both our venue and the many children present. We will be providing plenty of alcohol for those over 21!

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3:30 Call time?3:30 Call time?

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We expect our guests to start arriving around 3:30 to settle in a good seat, and request your arrival not much earlier than this to avoid too much down time in the pews. Also, to avoid running into any last minute set-up! We plan on our ceremony taking place a little before 4:00 PM, not on the dot of 3:30. If you do end up arriving a lot earlier than intended, we recommend finding a parking spot at the church, and letting off some steam at Lake Merced across the way! It is a good area to have your children let out any car wiggles without having to wait in the pews for an unnecessary, longer time period.

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Reception details?Reception details?

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A fairly traditional order of events is planned. After the ceremony, the couple and selected guests will be taking photos while the rest of our guests enjoy a cocktail hour with appetizers, drinks, games, and activities. You’re welcome to meander during this time—just don’t wander too far, as we’ll gather for our dinner around 6 PM, followed by toasts from our loved ones. Finally, we'll invite everyone to enjoy the dance floor and plenty of dessert!