FAQs

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Is the ceremony and reception on two different days?

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YES! The ceremony and reception will be held on two separate days. Ceremony: Thursday, September 24, 2026 – Monterey Reception: Saturday, September 26, 2026 – Fresno

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What time should I arrive?

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Out of respect for the ceremony, we kindly ask guests to arrive before it begins. To ensure everyone has time to find parking and can get comfortably seated before the ceremony begins, we kindly recommend arriving between 2:30 PM and 2:45 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 PM.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, guests are warmly invited to join us for a light dinner at Memory Garden, located at 20 Custom House Plaza in Monterey. We’ll gather shortly after the ceremony to relax, enjoy a light dinner, and spend time celebrating together.

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How far apart are the ceremony and dinner in Monterey?

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The ceremony at San Carlos Cathedral and the dinner at Memory Garden are both located in downtown Monterey and are a short distance from one another. Guests may enjoy a short walk (16mins) between the locations or drive (5mins) to the nearby Waterfront parking lot by Fisherman’s Wharf before heading to the garden.

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Is there parking?

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Yes! Parking will be available at all locations. Ceremony: Parking is available in the church’s parking lot. After the ceremony, we will make our way to Memory Garden. Guests may use the nearby Waterfront parking lot located next to Fisherman’s Wharf (245 Washington St, Monterey, CA 93940). Reception: Street parking and nearby neighborhood parking are available.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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To help you plan ahead, the ceremony and reception will take place in different settings. Ceremony: Indoors in Monterey Reception: Outdoors in Fresno on a lawn and patio. Please plan attire and footwear accordingly so you can stay comfortable while celebrating with us!

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Is there a dress code?

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Guests are encouraged to wear semi-formal attire. Tuxes and gowns are welcome, along with suits and cocktail dresses. We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white or yellow!

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Are kids allowed?

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As much as we love all of your little ones, we have chosen to make our wedding a 17+ celebration. We hope this gives everyone the chance to enjoy a relaxing evening out celebrating with us. We can’t wait to spend such a special day with our family and friends!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding, and we’re looking forward to celebrating together!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP by August 15th so we can finalize plans with our vendors. Early responses are always appreciated if you’re able!