FAQs

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How/when do I rsvp?

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You can RSVP on this very website - just look at the top of the screen. Please send us your acceptances or regrets by October 17th.

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What should I do if I cannot make it?

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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate your regrets on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.

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What if I don't RSVP in time?

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If we do not get an RSVP back by October 17th, it will be marked as a "No". We will miss celebrating with you, however, we have to provide guest counts to our vendors in a timely manner. We cannot accept late RSVPs. (This means you are not allowed to show up to our special day. There will be no seating, food, or beverage accommodations for you.)

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Can I bring a Date or a Plus One?

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We can only accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you receive a plus one, it will appear on your invite and during the RSVP process. We appreciate your understanding.

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an 13+ event with the exception of the young children in the bridal party. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Can I change my RSVP after I submit?

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Things happen - we get it! Just reach out as soon as you can so we can plan accordingly.

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What do I wear?

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We'd love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day. Dress code is semi-formal attire. Semi-formal wedding attire strikes a balance between elegant and comfortable, sitting between cocktail and business casual. Guests should wear knee-length or longer dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or tailored suits with ties being optional. Please avoid shades of white and beige.

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What colors are the bridal party wearing?

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The bridesmaids will be wearing a mix of mulberry, sage green, and espresso brown. The groomsmen will be wearing dark navy suits.

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What is the wedding schedule?

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Ceremony: 4:00p Cocktail Hour: 4:30p-6:00p Dinner & Traditions: 6:00-7:00p Dancing: 7:00p-9:45p Grand Exit: 10:00p

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We kindly ask all guests to arrive by 3:30p to find their seats and settle in. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00p, and we wouldn't want you to miss a single moment. (Plus, who doesn't love a little pre-wedding anticipation?)

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Where should I park?

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The parking guide can be viewed on the venue website at chapteriievents.com

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Are the ceremony and reception at the same location?

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No, the ceremony will be taking place at The Chapel Church and the reception will be at Chapter II Events. Both addresses can be found on the Wedding Events tab.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The wedding ceremony and reception will both take place indoors. Please note: it is December and there will be a short walk/drive to the reception space. Make sure to bring layers in case of cold weather.

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Will there be a bar?

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There is a bar! We are currently working on coordinating the details for the bar but will update this answer as soon as we have it!

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Should I avoid any certain colors?

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We'd love it if you avoided white, ivory, or anything that resembles white.

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How do we get there?

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By car: I-72 (exit 60 or 64) from the east (Springfield) or west (Quincy), and US-67 from the north or south By plane: Abraham Lincoln Capital Airport (SPI), flights in from American Airlines & United By train (the bride's favorite!): Amtrak station in Springfield, IL

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Is transportation provided for the wedding day?

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Currently we are working to coordinate transportation to take guests from the ceremony to the cocktail hour. The ceremony is happening across a grassy quad from the reception space. We will update this answer as soon as we know.

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Where should I stay?

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Room block information can be located on the "Where to Stay" tab, as well as other accommodations near the venue.

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). We ask that our guests be fully present as we say "I Do"! We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!

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Where are you registered?

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You'll find our registries linked on the Registry page - for a quick answer: Target and Amazon.

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Can I bring or mail a wedding gift?

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There will be a gift table at the reception, but mailing something from the registry is also super convenient-it already includes our shipping info.

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What if I have a food allergy or dietary restriction?

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Let us know when you RSVP and we'll do our best to accommodate you!

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Will there be dinner served?

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Absolutely - we'll be serving a delicious buffet meal with options for most dietary needs.

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Can I post wedding photos on social media?

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We kindly ask that you refrain from posting photos from our day before the bride and groom do. Once we post, you have the green light!

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What else is there to do while I'm in town?

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So glad you asked! The lovely bride, Marissa, choreographed a production of Annie at the Legacy Theatre! They have a show Sunday afternoon that you can catch on your way home!