FAQs
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Where's the wedding?
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We're getting married at The Upchurch in Cary, NC. The address is: 7213 Roberts Rd, Cary, NC 27519
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How far is the airport from the venue?
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RDU is 15-20 minutes from our venue!
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Will there be a shuttle from the hotel to the venue?
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Nope! We don't have a wedding block for hotels so everyone will be staying in different places. However, Uber and Lyft both go to the venue!
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP no later than December 12, 2025 (RSVPs will be sent out in the month of October)! If something comes up and you can no longer come, just update your RSVP. If you have issues RSVPing, please contact Erick and he will RSVP for you!
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What do I need to wear?
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We'd like everyone to dress in their most comfortable cocktail/semi-formal attire, but please be comfortable! Wear cowboy boots with the suit. Wear a cowboy hat! BE a COWBOY. (Grace definitely wrote this one). Please also feel free to wear ALL THE COLORS (MINUS WHITE). Grace and Erick love colors and want everyone to look and feel their best. Especially for the dance floor!!!
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Are plus ones allowed?
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We gave all of our friends a plus one, so you should be good to go here!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Hell yeah! We will have an open bar for our guests, but bartenders do have the authority to cut anyone off who is too inebriated.
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Will there be food?
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Yes! Dinner and appetizers!
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Can I drive to the venue?
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Yes! The venue does have 60 free parking spaces. However, if you plan to drink, we think you should use Lyft/Uber, which are both findable at our venue. If you do happen to drive and accidentally drink too much, you can pick up your car Friday morning before 10am.
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Will children be allowed at the wedding?
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To allow all our guests the opportunity to let their hair down and enjoy themselves, we’ve elected to make our wedding a child-free event, except for the bride & grooms immediate family.