We met for the first time during a family member's remembrance celebration. Oscar was talking to the DJ and Effa went over to ask the DJ to change the music (as per usual). That interaction lasted about 5 minutes and we both went our separate ways. Four months later, a friend invited Effa to go to the NVT football tournament which was hosted in Atlanta, Effa and her friend ran into Oscar and that was where the couple reconnected and the rest is history.