FAQs
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Can I bring a guest?
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Although we would love to offer a plus one to all guest, we have a strict guest list to meet our venue restrictions. Your invitation is addressed to those who are invited. If it includes a guest by name, then yes they are invited! If not, we prefer to just have you attend. If you have any questions regarding your guest please reach out to Lucas & Abigail.
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When and where do I RSVP?
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More instructions will be provided to RSVP once invitations are sent out. Please RSVP on our website by 03/01/2026. If possible, we encourage you to RSVP before this date!
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Can I bring my kids?
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We adore your little ones; however, we’d like to give all of our guests the opportunity to relax and let their hair down away from little eyes and little ears. For that reason, this is an adults-only event.
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What if I can't make it?
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You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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I can't attend all events - is that okay?
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Of course! Come when you can - just don't forget to RSVP "no" to events you won't be attending.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal. For men, we recommend a suit, blazer, or a button-down with pants. For women, we kindly ask that light colors such as white, off-white, tans, neutrals, and light pinks be reserved for the bride. We also request that light yellows be saved for the wedding party. Keep in mind that majority of the day will be outside!
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Where should I stay?
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We have reserved discounted rooms at AC Hotel Raleigh Downtown. We would love to have our guest at this hotel with us for the weekend! All organized travel will be leaving from/arriving to this hotel. Please see our travel page for more information on booking your stay!
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Will transportation be provided?
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Transportation will be provided to and from the AC Hotel and the wedding venue on the big day! Please note: transportation will not be provided for Thursday night’s Welcome Drinks, but no worries—it will be held in downtown Raleigh, just a short walk from the hotel!
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Can I take photos at the ceremony?
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We’ve hired a professional photographer to capture our special day, so we kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. The flash from phones and cameras can interfere with the quality of the professional photos. We’d love to see your smiling faces rather than them being hidden behind phones! However, feel free to take photos and videos for the rest of the evening!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Duhh!! We will be offering a full open bar of wine, beer and spirits at the wedding. Welcome Drinks on Thursday night will have an open bar including beer and wine.