Matron of Honor
Steph and I go back to our freshman year of college when we were neighbors in Seton. We met when I awkwardly stopped her at her door to ask if she played softball too. After that the rest is history. We spent so much time hanging out I would sometimes mix up what my room number actually was. Steph and I haven't always lived the closest to each other, but we have managed to stay as close as we were in college.
Best Man
"Big Perm" as he is commonly called amongst the groomsmen, not only is he known for his luscious locks, but a big heart and the ability to remember everyone's birthday without the help of his wife. One of our earliest memories together was of him catching for a youth baseball team I was playing against, and while attempting to steal a base, having the accuracy to nail me in the cup I was wearing. I think our entire town heard me cry out in pain. It was just one moment from our younger days that helped to solidify a friendship that has lasted through high school, being college roommates, and to now navigating adulthood.
Bridesmaid
Kelly and I have known each other our whole lives, because we are cousins. I have so many great memories with Kelly, from being in the "cool cabin" to playing wiffle ball in her backyard. Anytime we would play wiffle ball she would always have to use her bam bam bat. Whether we were on vacation or at her house that bat was her go to.
Groomsman
In high school, John and I became friends when he was working at McDonald's. I would order one cheeseburger at the drive-thru, but magically would find enough food in my bag to feed several people. Who knew that such a small act of kindness would provide the foundation for 3 decades of friendship. That giving spirit still holds true to this day, which makes John someone I know I can always count on whether we are out at a bar or to handle the group's travel arrangements. In all seriousness, John is dependable--what a great quality in a friend.
Bridesmaid
Jamie and I went to high school together, but didn't become friends until she moved into the neighborhood. Between being neighbors and working together for a short time we became very good friends. We had many great times together just hanging out at her house watching classic Disney movies chowing down on Taco Bell.
Groomsman
Matt and I went to different middle schools, but we played against one another in various sports in our local recreational leagues. On basketball courts and baseball fields we acquainted ourselves with one another. It wasn't until high school that we started to hang out and a build a friendship. I had always played a good defense against Matt on the court or on the diamond. Now I let him play offense with my body because Dr. Matt is one hell of a chiropractor (shameless plug for Hartsburg Chiropractic located in Danbury, CT).
Bridesmaid
Danielle and I go way back, but we didn't realize it until I met Austin. Danielle was friends with a sibling of one of my friends when we were in elementary school. Even though we don't specifically remember being together at their house I'm sure it happened at some point. Once we had this realization she told me I was probably one of the "annoying friends" that would bother her when she would be visiting too. I can't say for sure yes of no, but I would have to lean toward yes that is true. Now you will be stuck with the "annoying friend" sister-in-law.
Groomsman
A friend since high school, Kyle is the guy to have in your corner for various reasons. He's the person that would stick up for you in any situation. If Kyle thinks that you have been wronged or sees that trouble is brewing, he is the first one there to have your back. Before the times of Uber, Kyle could flag down any cab on the streets of Boston by placing himself in front of it. Kyle is someone who would go out of his way to ensure that you have what you need. What else can I say about Kyle "F***ing" Manacek except that it is an honor to have him with me on this day.
Bridesmaid
I met Jenn when we were both working at Broadview Middle School. Our second year there we were assigned to the same class. That is where our friendship blossomed. Since then both of us have moved on from Broadview and started new adventures. Her going full time working at her salon, Garden of Eden, and me moving to Rhode Island to teach. The distance hasn't kept us from keeping our friendship going.
Groomsman
Ryan is the only groomsmen whom I met after high school, which is one, uncontrollable regret I have of my friendship with him because I feel like I missed out on more time with him. We sure are making up for that time through the memories and adventures we go on together. I met Ryan when he began dating a college friend of mine, the wonderful Mae, whom he would later marry, and upon that first introduction a strong bond quickly formed. Because Ryan lives in NYC, which is a major hub for entertainment and the arts, Chateau Kass has accommodated many of my lodging needs. Ryan is the guy who will fill your drink, make sure you have enough to eat, ensure that your cell phone battery is charged--he genuinely cares about you and is selfless in that manner.
Bridesmaid
I met Julia when she was 4 after moving next door. I can remember babysitting for her when she was a little munchkin. Watching movies and having popcorn with cayenne pepper was a typical babysitting night. As she has grown we have become closer. She is like a little sister to me. I have seen her grow up into such a smart and beautiful young woman.
Groomsman
Teddy and I have been friends since the 5th Grade. His house was base for most of the events in the neighborhood where we would all ride our bikes to; whiffle ball, basketball, football, and Nintendo competitions to name a few. It was an added bonus when his Mom made us snacks or let us stay for dinner. Ted continued to be the organizer of just about all things through high school and even in our college years. This characteristic helped to keep our group close to one another, as evidenced by the fact I have six groomsmen from my school-age days by my side on this special day. There is no doubt in my mind that Ted was a huge part of keeping us bonded.
Bridesmaid
Lauren is one of my oldest friends. We have known each other since first grade because of Girl Scouts. We grew up around the corner from each other and spent summers going on Candlewood Lake and swimming in Lauren's pool. We went to different colleges, she lives in Pennsylvania and I in Rhode Island, but when we get back together it is like nothing has changed!
Groomsman
Jeff was the friend in high school that always made the right decision. And by that I mean when some in our group would make a knucklehead decision, he would steer clear from said circumstance. As we have gotten older, he remains our voice of reason in times it is needed. Jeff and I also majored at the same college after we both had decided our original universities weren't the right fit for us. When everyone else in our group were away at other schools, Jeff and I spent a lot of time together. Whether it was working on our academics or going to see a movie, Jeff helped to get me through those years by providing me with his sound insight on things, looking at negative situations in a way that I hadn't before. This is why, Zaffino is always on the money, always has been.