FAQs

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Can I bring my kids to the ceremony & reception?

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Although we love all of your little ones, however due to venue restrictions we will be having an adults-only (21+) ceremony & reception. Enjoy your "night off" and celebrate with us!

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be seriously missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "no" so that we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Can I bring a guest (+1) that is not noted on my formal wedding invitation?

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We will address the formal wedding invitations to the people who we would love to come. If your formal invitation indicates "and Guest", then please include their name in your RSVP when you RSVP online. Please ensure that you are only RSVPing for yourself and your guest (if indicated on your formal invitation). Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests who have been formally invited on your wedding invitation.

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What should I wear?

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Our ceremony will be outdoors, cocktail hour will be outdoors (with lawn games!), and the reception will be indoors. The weather in southern California in April/May is typically mild and in the 70s. Cocktail attire is preferred and we would love to see our guests get dressed up with us! Please, no jeans or denim. Suit jackets are not required for men, but encouraged. You may wear whatever color you like, but please do not wear white :)

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What is parking/transportation like?

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Our venue has a large parking lot available so if you are driving, fear not! You will be able to park on-site at the venue (The Harmony Estate in Murrieta, CA) - parking is free. If you are planning on partying with us (we hope that you will be in your Party Pants for a great night celebrating with us) - then please utilize Ride Share Apps like Uber & Lyft! For drop-off, your Driver can drop you off at the drive to the house on property where the ceremony will be held. For pick-up, your Driver will be able to pick you up at the back of the property where the reception will be taking place.

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Will there be an open bar at the wedding?

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Yes! At the wedding, we have you covered for all your drinks, appetizers, dinner, and desserts - please enjoy and have a great time!! If you are choosing to meet up with us during our Wedding Weekend at the meet & greet on Friday night, please know that these events are not being covered by the bride & groom or their families. We will have some beer and wine at the meet & greet, but please feel free to have dinner before and BYOB!

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Do you have a gift registry? Where?

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Yes! We are registered at Target and Amazon, along with Honeymoon & Newlywed Funds through Zola. You can find our registries by searching for either of our names in the Registry section at Target and/or Amazon.

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" - meaning we are asking that our guests put their phones on silent and cameras away during the ceremony. Why? We've hired a professional to capture some of the most important moments of our lives, and we'd hate to have a well-meaning person's device blocking those moments for her to capture. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you'd like! We promise to share our ceremony photos with you as soon as we get them. If you choose to share our photos on your social media, please use our hashtag #EatDrinkandBemiller so we can see them all!