FAQs

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Are there any colors to avoid wearing?

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Please avoid light blue, since that’s the wedding party’s color.

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Is there a dress code?

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We’re going for an elegant, summery garden‑party vibe. Think light colors and dressy patterns (pastels, florals, soft neutrals). Long dresses and suits + ties are encouraged! The whole celebration is outdoors in June in San Diego, so choose outfits that feel chic and comfortable in the sunshine.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive by 4:30 pm to have time for seating before the ceremony.

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Can I bring my children?

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We are happy to include children of guests where noted. When you RSVP, you’ll see anyone included in your party reflected in your total guest count.

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Will transportation be provided to the venue?

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Yes! We will be providing transportation to and from the venue for our guests. Shuttles will pick up and drop off at The Seabird Resort (101 Mission Avenue, Oceanside, CA 92054). If you choose to stay elsewhere, there are several hotels within walking distance of The Seabird, and you are more than welcome to make your way there to use the provided transportation. More details on timing will be shared closer to the wedding date.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Due to space considerations, we’re only able to accommodate plus-ones for guests who have been explicitly invited with one. If a plus-one is included, it will be indicated on your invitation or when you RSVP. We appreciate your understanding as we keep our celebration intimate with close family and friends.

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Will there be vegetarian options?

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Dinner will be served family-style. If you have a vegetarian preference, please reach out to us in advance so we can arrange a suitable entrée with our caterer.

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Is there parking available?

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Free parking will be available at the venue. However, we encourage guests to use the provided transportation for a stress-free experience.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that guests keep phones and cameras away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present. Don’t worry—our photographer will capture all the special moments!

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Are the ceremony and reception indoors or outdoors?

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Both our ceremony and reception will take place outdoors. The ceremony will be held in an open-air setting, and the reception will follow under a tent. As the venue is fully open-air, we recommend dressing accordingly and bringing layers if needed to stay comfortable throughout the evening.

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What is your registry?

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Your presence is the greatest gift! If you would like to give something, you can find our registry here on the website.