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May 23, 2026
White Stone, VA

Ashley & Patrick

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We know this isn't the first wedding you've ever been to, but here are some common questions for how we want our special day to be.
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How fancy is this party?

Answer

Fancy is Ashley's second favorite F word. So please dress to the nines in Formal attire. We also have color scheme we would love to see you in. We are in the lawn, so be mindful of pointy high heels.

Question

When is the RSVP Deadline?

Answer

We need to know if you are coming by May 1, 2026 so we can make sure a chair and meals are prepared for you.

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Where is the ceremony & reception?

Answer

Everything is at the bridal party house. It is outside in the lawn overlooking the Rappahannock River. The house, "Pop Castle", is a historic landmark and the property used to be 380 acres. It is now a Registered Historic Landmark. We will have some of the first floor opening for curious eyes, but please respect the blockades for restricted areas.

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Will parking be available

Answer

Yes! We have parking behind the house, but we highly recommend you carpool.

Question

Is there an open bar?

Answer

Don't ask dumb questions.

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Are kids invited?

Answer

We want to have permission to act up on our special day and would prefer not to have impressionable young minds watching. There is also open water with sometimes strong currents. We hope this can be a good weekend for parents to relax & reconnect.

Question

What happens if it rains?

Answer

Bring an umbrella and we will pivot our plans to make sure everyone is still having a good time.

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

The only ones invited are specifically addressed on the invitation. It takes so much coordination to add anyone unexpected.

Question

I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

We are getting the wedding catered with a sit down meal. So please reach out to Ashley with food concerns before the RSVP date.

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