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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Duncan Lam and Abigail Ayres
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When and where is the wedding?

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Our wedding will take place on June 6, 2026 at Patterson Mansion in Washington, DC. The venue address and full travel information can be found on the Schedule page.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive between 4:30 and 5:00pm to allow time for parking and seating.

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is Black Tie. We encourage formal evening attire—tuxedos, formal suits, floor-length gowns, or elegant cocktail dresses.

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Is parking available?

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Yes, parking is available near the venue, either through Valet at your chosen hotel, or garages located around the venue.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation includes a plus one, it will be listed on your RSVP. Unfortunately, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests beyond those named.

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Is this a child-free wedding?

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Yes, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope this allows everyone to relax and enjoy the evening.

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Will food and drinks be provided?

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Yes! We’ll be serving buffet-style cuisine, and hosting an open bar.

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How do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP through the RSVP page on our website by the RSVP Deadline.

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Where are you registered?

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Your presence means the world to us! If you’d like to give a gift, registry details can be found on the Registry page. We've provided links to both Crate & Barrel and Pottery Barn registries.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to refrain from taking photos during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present. Phones and cameras are welcome at the reception.

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Are hotel accommodations available?

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Yes! We’ve shared recommended hotels with discount codes and travel tips on the Travel page.