FAQs

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What is the wedding attire?

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We’re aiming for a vibe that’s dressed up—but not black tie, and definitely not casual. Think cocktail attire with a touch of flair: suits or jackets for the gentlemen, and dresses or chic separates for the ladies. Feel free to have fun with color, texture, and accessories—just save the jeans and sneakers for the after-party. We want everyone to feel fabulous and comfortable while still honoring the spirit of the celebration. If you're wondering whether something is “too casual,” it probably is. If you're wondering whether it's “too extra,” we say go for it.

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Are kids welcome??

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We love your little ones—and yes, kids are absolutely invited to join the celebration! We’ll have yard games, coloring activity packs, and plenty of dancing to keep them entertained (and maybe tire them out before dessert). That said, we totally understand if you’re craving a kid-free evening. If a date night sounds more your style, feel free to leave the kiddos at home with a sitter and come celebrate with us sans snack packs and nap schedules. We’ll be thrilled to see you either way! Whether you're bringing the whole crew or flying solo, we can't wait to celebrate with you.

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Where are you registered?

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After seven years, we've collected every kitchen gadget imaginable—so we're skipping the traditional registry. Our cabinets are full, and frankly, we don’t have room for another mug (no matter how cute). Instead, we’d love for you to contribute to our honeymoon fund. Whether it’s having drinks, going to a football game, or just a nice dinner, your gift will help us make memories that last longer than a blender warranty. Thanks for being part of our day - can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Can I bring a date?

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We’re so excited to celebrate our special day with our closest family and friends. Due to the intimate size of our wedding, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests, including dates or +ones. If their name is not listed on the formal invitation, we kindly ask that they do not attend. If you have any questions, please reach out to Heather/Steven. We look forward to celebrating with you.

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Do I have to RSVP?

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Yes, pretty please!!! We ask that you RSVP so we can get an accurate headcount and make sure your dinner plate is filled with something delicious you’ll actually enjoy. No RSVP = no entrée, and we’d hate for you to miss out! RSVP’s will be included with the formal invitation. Please get them back in the mail to us as soon as possible.