FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To assist us in planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, the deadline to RSVP is October 10, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we will unfortunately have to mark you as a "no". We would love celebrating with you, however we need to provide our venue with an accurate count by that date.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to spatial limitations, we can only accommodate formally invited guests. If you've received a plus one, it will be stated on your invitation as "& Guest" . Otherwise, we ask only named guests on the invitation be in attendance.
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Are children welcome?
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As much as we would love your family to celebrate with us, our wedding is exclusively for adults, with the exception of those in the immediate family who are a part of our ceremony.
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Can I take photos/record during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that you keep your phones and cameras away during the ceremony, so that everyone is present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer, and when the photos are provided to us we can certainly send you digital copies. Outside of the ceremony, please fee free to record and snap away!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! There will be an open bar with two signature batch cocktails, and a wide range of liquors, beers, wines, and non-alcoholic options. The drinks are on us!
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What is the dress code?
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We would love to have our family and friends get dressed up with us on our big day! Our dress code is formal. This means a suit, and/or a cocktail dress, gown or pantsuit. Please no white! In honor of the influence of Mens Wearhouse, you're going to like the way you look.
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Will the wedding be outside?
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Weather permitting, the wedding will be hosted outside, moving inside for our dinner and after ceremony festivities. Please dress accordingly, as November in New York can be unpredictable!
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What tattooing will be available?
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We are lucky enough to have Lexi ( @Lexi.tattoos on Instagram) of Dark Fern Tattoos LLC providing us with tattooing on site! There is a pre-made flash tattoo sheet of available designs at her station, having something to do with the bride and groom. The rate is $100 per tattoo plus tip! We recommend bringing ~$200 cash! Disclaimer: Consuming alcohol before or during the process of getting a tattoo is strongly ill-advised. Alcohol can thin the blood, increase bleeding, impair judgment, and negatively affect both the tattooing process and the final result. For your safety, comfort, and the best outcome, please avoid heavy alcohol consumption if you plan on being tattooed at the event!
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When should I arrive?
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As our start time is 4:00 PM, you may arrive up to a half hour early, but please no later than 4:15!
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What are the Bridesmaids wearing?
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The Bridesmaids/men will be in forest green dresses!