Yes, long formal dresses for women (preferably no red) and dark colored suit or tux for men.
No, we are having an adult only reception (excluding immediate family only).
Yes, right in front of our ceremony/reception.
No, unfortunately the guest capacity is full.
The ceremony starts at 4:30 but you are more than welcome to come early.
I will post this once I know more from Close places near Grayhawk for special rates.