FAQs
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Where are you registered for wedding gifts?
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We are registered only through Zola. The complete wedding registry is on our website (and can purchase directly from our wish list) under the "Registry" tab.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have reserved a room block at The Renaissance SouthPark in Charlotte, NC. Please book your stay by August 22 to guarantee a room in our block. Mention the Tobben & Pham wedding while booking to receive our reduced rate.
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Is there a dress code?
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Think semi-formal—suits, jumpsuits, and dresses that are polished but not too over-the-top.
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Are kids and/or plus-ones welcome?
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Our guest list is limited, so only those named on your invitation are invited. If you received a plus-one, they’ll be listed there.
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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
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We ask our guests to arrive 30 minutes beforehand in order to be in their seats 10 to 15 minutes before the ceremony starts.
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Is there parking for the ceremony and reception?
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For guests within driving distance of the venue, there is free on-site parking.
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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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Our brunch ceremony will be outdoors in the garden, while cocktail hour and the reception will take place indoors. Guests will walk to the garden on paved pathways, but will need to step on grass briefly to take their seats.
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Can I take pictures during the wedding?
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We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos during the ceremony so our photographer can capture the moment without distractions. After the ceremony, feel free to snap away and share the love!
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What type of food will be served at your wedding?
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We’re still finalizing the menu, but we’ll update this as we get closer to the big day!
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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?
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Please note any restrictions on your RSVP—we’ll make sure you’re taken care of!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes, we will be offering an open bar during the reception.