FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

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We hope it's a Yes! Please RSVP digitally using our link on our wedding website. You can RSVP by clicking on the tab labelled, "RSVP for Our Event(s)". We kindly ask that you please send your RSVP response by Friday, October 20, 2023.

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

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Our wedding ceremony and reception are both taking place at the same location, La Valencia Hotel (See address and phone number below). For information for the ceremony and reception times, please refer on our wedding website to the tab/link section, "Schedule & Itinerary", for full information. La Valencia Hotel 1132 Prospect St La Jolla, CA 92037 (855) 476-6870 https://www.lavalencia.com

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How do I get to the venue?

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For our guests, we are asking for you to please make your own way (travel arrangements) to our wedding venue. Directions and access to the venue will be either by (your) personal car or a ride share service (e.g. Uber, Lyft, Taxi, Rental Car, etc.). There is street parking on Prospect Street near the venue, but street parking may be limited with time restrictions. For ease of parking and arrival to the venue, you can valet directly in front of the La Valencia Hotel. La Valencia Hotel offers Overnight valet parking and is available for all hotel guests for $25 per night. Day valet parking is available for $15. Self-parking IS NOT available onsite at La Valencia Hotel. Address: La Valencia Hotel 1132 Prospect St. La Jolla, CA 92037

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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Formal Attire or Black-Tie Tuxes and gowns are preferred, but not required. As our wedding is taking place in mid-November sometimes the weather here in Southern California can be unpredictable! Traditionally in the past, it can vary and either be a heat wave or a chilly Autumn day. The ceremony is located outdoors. Our cocktail hour is being held outdoors and will have outdoor heating. Our reception will be held and located indoors.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope this advance notice means you’re able to let your hair down and celebrate with us on the day!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are at capacity with our venue which means we are sadly unable to accommodate additional guests. We look forward to celebrating with you on the day!

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Is there a discount code or room block (for your wedding) for rooms at the venue?

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La Valencia does not permit room blocks, however we do have a discount code to use if booking a room at La Valencia. Please make sure to CALL (855) 476-6870 the hotel directly when booking in order to apply the discount code for our wedding to ensure a discount (15%) of your stay. 15% OFF DISCOUNT CODE: 2023DITTRICKOBRIEN La Valencia Booking Phone Number: (855) 476-6870 La Valencia Website: https://www.lavalencia.com Also see the tab/link, "Travel & Accommodations", within our wedding website for more information.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We please ask that you arrive at 3 pm, prior to our ceremony start time (3:30 pm) in order for no interruptions on seating and scheduling.

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What is the timeline for the day?

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Please refer to the "Schedule & Itinerary" tab here on our wedding website for a full timeline of the day. We please ask that you arrive at 3 pm, prior to our ceremony start time (3:30 pm) in order for no interruptions on seating and scheduling.

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Do you have a gift registry?

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Your presence at our wedding is present enough! However, for friends and family who have expressed an interest, we’ve created an online registry with at a few stores (see Registry Information below) to make it easy for our guests. Registry: 1.) The One-Stop Place to find our Registry is to refer to the tab link called, "Wedding Registry", here on our wedding website. This displays all of the stores we have Registry links to. 2.) Amazon https://www.amazon.com/wedding/share/dittrickandobrienweddingregistry11192023 3.) Target: https://www.target.com/gift-registry/gift/dittrick-and-obrien-november2023

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please see the tab/link, "Travel & Accommodations", here on our wedding website.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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For ease of parking and arrival to the venue, you can valet directly in front of the La Valencia Hotel. La Valencia Hotel offers Overnight valet parking and is available for all hotel guests for $25 per night. Day valet parking is available for $15. Self-parking IS NOT available onsite at La Valencia Hotel. Address: La Valencia Hotel 1132 Prospect St. La Jolla, CA 92037

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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We are working on this, as we would absolutely love if you can take photos and post during the reception! If you have any amazing ideas for a hashtag for our special day, please send us a text or email us!

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Who can I contact with any additional questions?

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If you have any questions other than listed here, please reach out to our wedding coordinator. Julie Scrivener julie@thebestweddingforyou.com