FAQ

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How will your wedding ceremony proceed?

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The main feature is the wedding talk, which is about 30 minutes long and delivered by a minister of Jehovah’s Witnesses. The warm and upbuilding discussion emphasizes how the Bible can help the couple have a lasting, loving, and happy marriage.—Ephesians 5:33. Toward the end of the talk, the couple exchange vows and rings to solemnize the marriage. The minister will then pronounce them husband and wife. The talk concludes with a prayer asking Jehovah God to bless the newly married couple.

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Are masks required?

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Yes. In the Bible, we have learned that life is a precious gift. Jehovah God trusts that we will do our best never to endanger our own life or the lives of others. (Acts 17:25, 28; Revelation 4:11) With this Bible principle in mind, regardless of current local regulations, it is recommended that all in-person attendees wear a mask in indoor public spaces and crowded outdoor settings. According to the CDC, masks should fit well and cover your nose and mouth. Keep in mind that the use of a face covering is not a substitute for physical distancing.

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Is there a dress code?

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While weddings at a Kingdom Hall have no specific dress code, Jehovah’s Witnesses strive to follow the Bible’s direction to dress modestly and respectfully. The couple would appreciate it if others do the same. (1 Timothy 2:9) Of course, the same principles apply to the reception, for those who will be attending.

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Will there be wedding gifts?

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The Bible encourages generosity. (Psalm 37:21) Jehovah’s Witnesses are happy to give and receive wedding gifts. (Luke 6:38) However, Witnesses avoid soliciting gifts or publicly announcing the names of the givers. (Matthew 6:3, 4; 2 Corinthians 9:7; 1 Peter 3:8) Besides being unscriptural, such practices can make those in attendance feel uncomfortable. Please note more information about gifts on our registry page.

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Will there be a toast?

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No. Jehovah’s Witnesses do not toast, because the practice has roots in false religious customs. Out of respect for the couple and their beliefs, we ask you to please refrain from toasts or other public declarations during the ceremony or reception. If you would like to express your support to the couple, please do so in a card or by approaching the couple directly.

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Will rice or confetti be thrown?

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No. In some places, people throw rice, confetti, blowing bubbles, or something similar on the newly married couple. They believe that this will bring the couple good luck, happiness, and a long life. But Jehovah’s Witnesses avoid practices connected with superstition. This includes invoking good luck, which conflicts with Bible principles.—Isaiah 65:11.

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Will there be music or dancing?

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While there is no Bible principal against music or dancing, we have decided, as a couple, to have a small, dinner-only reception by invitation only. Due to our personal preferences, there will be no alcohol, dancing or other wedding games. This will give us more opportunity to associate with our invited guests, many of whom we do not get the pleasure of seeing regularly.

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Still have questions?

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Visit JW.ORG — the official website of Jehovah’s Witnesses for more details. Type "Wedding" into the search bar and select "What Happens at a Wedding of Jehovah's Witnesses"